It Is What It Is by David Alan Brown
Tom has a failing marriage and fanciful writing career and is struggling to understand his relationship with Lucas, a younger, gay man. The two are obviously sincere friends, and when circumstances allow them to consider the full breadth of their feelings they find themselves intrigued and confused. It Is What It Is offers compelling new perspectives on topical issues – communication, sexuality, friendship,...
Tom has a failing marriage and fanciful writing career and is struggling to understand his relationship with Lucas, a younger, gay man. The two are obviously sincere friends, and when circumstances allow them to consider the full breadth of their feelings they find themselves intrigued and confused. It Is What It Is offers compelling new perspectives on topical issues – communication, sexuality, friendship, domestic life – from the perspective of a unique, sensitive character in our culture; the middle-aged, stay-at-home Dad.
At open, Tom and his wife, Vivian, are throwing a party on Christmas. Their relationship is strained, and Tom becomes much more animated when his younger friend Lucas arrives.
A party guest, Ellen, shows her trepidation around a very brittle Vivian. She tells Tom of her attraction to Lucas, only to be disappointed to discover he’s not available. Tom’s friend Mark flirts with Lucas and goads Tom about his apparent interest in the young man.
Tensions at the party come to a head when Vivian insults Lucas with a gay slur and Lucas lashes out. Tom and Mark must defuse the situation.
Tom decides it’s best to take Lucas back to the train station. Returning to retrieve his cell phone, Lucas surprises Vivian and Mark in a compromising position.
After intermission, Tom arrives at Lucas’ apartment after an argument with Vivian. She is filing for divorce, convinced her husband is gay.
The next morning, Lucas’ friend Nan tells Tom about an important writing fellowship Lucas is interviewing for that day. Tom leaves, angry Lucas did not tell him this himself.
Lucas reveals his motivations to Nan, including why he hasn’t told Tom about his wife’s infidelities. Lucas says he has never cared for someone so deeply without engaging in a sexual relationship. They agree Tom is likely not gay.
That night, Tom and Lucas try to come to terms with their feelings for each other. The process is complicated by Tom’s reactions to his divorce and separation from his son. Lucas’ information about Vivian’s motives can lead to a successful outcome for Tom. He must decide how revealing the news will impact his desire for a relationship with him.