I Hate This (a play without the baby)

by David Hansen

David and his wife Toni learn at her 30 week check-up that their unborn child has died. Jumping back and forth between two timelines, David tells the story of the 36 hours between learning this truth and the birth of their first child, as well as the year that follows - detailing the frustration, recrimination, guilt, sorrow and ultimate acceptance of their son's death.

David and his wife Toni learn at her 30 week check-up that their unborn child has died. Jumping back and forth between two timelines, David tells the story of the 36 hours between learning this truth and the birth of their first child, as well as the year that follows - detailing the frustration, recrimination, guilt, sorrow and ultimate acceptance of their son's death.

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I Hate This (a play without the baby)

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  • Lisa Dellagiarino Feriend: I Hate This (a play without the baby)

    I don't have enough compliments for this play. It begins with a couple 30 weeks pregnant being told no heartbeat can be detected, and then it alternates between moving forward in time and returning to that day, preparing to give birth. It is beautiful and heartbreaking. One moment that got me was the observation that we use language to understand our world, but there is no word for parents of a dead child, so you don't understand who you are. So much weighty stuff articulated perfectly. I am going to be thinking about this play for a long time.

    I don't have enough compliments for this play. It begins with a couple 30 weeks pregnant being told no heartbeat can be detected, and then it alternates between moving forward in time and returning to that day, preparing to give birth. It is beautiful and heartbreaking. One moment that got me was the observation that we use language to understand our world, but there is no word for parents of a dead child, so you don't understand who you are. So much weighty stuff articulated perfectly. I am going to be thinking about this play for a long time.

  • Donna Hoke: I Hate This (a play without the baby)

    People need this play to learn how to help parents who've lost infants, people those parents alone knew and loved. Kudos to David for sharing so much truth and pain in an effort to share awareness.

    People need this play to learn how to help parents who've lost infants, people those parents alone knew and loved. Kudos to David for sharing so much truth and pain in an effort to share awareness.

  • Ricardo Soltero-Brown: I Hate This (a play without the baby)

    This is a very, very good play. Of the highest, most extraordinary standard. I'd like to recommend, now, a drama, sincerely as I can. Hansen forgoes a procedural account of tragedy, instead he structures a journey of mythic quality through grief and terror without sacrificing any elements of objectivity or subjectivity but, in fact, makes full use of both by linking specific moments in time by their sentiment or subtext, observing the various players and stages of a nightmare odyssey, revisiting them, even reimagining them, yes, dramatizing them, noting the excesses of fancy and reality. The...

    This is a very, very good play. Of the highest, most extraordinary standard. I'd like to recommend, now, a drama, sincerely as I can. Hansen forgoes a procedural account of tragedy, instead he structures a journey of mythic quality through grief and terror without sacrificing any elements of objectivity or subjectivity but, in fact, makes full use of both by linking specific moments in time by their sentiment or subtext, observing the various players and stages of a nightmare odyssey, revisiting them, even reimagining them, yes, dramatizing them, noting the excesses of fancy and reality. The fountain, the sparrow. Unforgettable.

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Character Information

  • David
    Character Age
    32
    Character Race/Ethnic Identity
    Any
    Character Gender Identity
    Male

Development History

  • Type Reading, Organization Dobama Theatre, Cleveland Heights, Year 2002

Production History

  • Type Professional, Organization Chennai Art Theatre, Year 2021
  • Type Professional, Organization Reinberger Auditorium, Cleveland, OH, Year 2016
  • Type University, Organization Hartwick College, Oneonta, NY, Year 2015
  • Type Professional, Organization Freerange Theatre, The Lowry, Manchester, UK, Year 2014
  • Type Professional, Organization Cleveland Public Theatre, Cleveland, OH, Year 2011
  • Type Professional, Organization Beargrass Christian Church, Louisville, KY, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Corporate College, Warrensville Hts., OH, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Lurgan Town Hall, Lurgan, Northern Ireland, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Plymouth Salvation Army Hall, Plymouth, UK, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Birmingham, UK, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Royal College of Physicians, London, UK, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization St. Cuthbert's Church, Carlisle, UK, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization Terry O'Toole Theatre, Lincoln, UK, Year 2007
  • Type Professional, Organization 15th National Perinatal Bereavement Conference, Chicago, IL, Year 2006
  • Type Professional, Organization International Student Centre, London, UK, Year 2006
  • Type Professional, Organization St. Vincent DePaul Church, London, UK, Year 2006
  • Type Professional, Organization University Plaza Hotel and Conference Center, Columbus, OH, Year 2006
  • Type Professional, Organization Akron City Hospital, Akron, OH, Year 2005
  • Type Professional, Organization MetroHealth Medical Center, Cleveland, OH , Year 2005
  • Type Fringe, Organization The New York International Fringe Festival, Year 2004
  • Type Professional, Organization LaCentre Conference and Banquet Facility, Westlake, OH, Year 2004
  • Type Professional, Organization Rock & Roll Hall of Fame & Museum, Cleveland, OH, Year 2004
  • Type Fringe, Organization Minnesota Fringe Festival, Year 2003
  • Type Professional, Organization Cleveland Clinic, Cleveland, OH, Year 2003
  • Type Workshop, Organization Cleveland Public Theatre, Cleveland, OH, Year 2003

Awards

  • Top Ten Play of 2003
    The Plain Dealer
    2003
  • Overall Excellence Award - Solo Performance
    The New York International Fringe Festival
    2004