For some marriage sacrifices independence, identity itself -- the "you" for "us." Martineau explores the emotional price that is paid for those who want out of marriage -- not forever, no, just for a bit -- even if it means adultery or, at least, flirtation at the Christmas tree sales lot. It's the thought-process about independence as transgression within marriage that is captivating in this monologue.

What a powerful and vulnerable monologue that speaks to losing oneself. It's perfect. Who is a wife when she is part of a team but acts alone? Simple thought provoking.

A short monologue, but with a big punch! This piece gets straight to the point about asking about identity. Can we keep our own identity in a relationship, or are we destined to lose some of it. A question so many of us can relate to. And the xmas cards...yep, i sign on behalf of too!