PRE-WAR exemplifies a fundamental truth about human connection: though the specifics of our individual experiences are endlessly varied, joy and heartache and grief are universal. This powerful scene between two women with seemingly nothing in common (aside from their apartment building) underscores the ways we’re all linked, and reminds us to get to know our neighbors.

PRE-WAR handles trauma and loss with a beautiful equity between parties. This show, that I had the privilege of seeing performed as a part of More Real Life Stories in Newburyport, MA, handles the balance of comedy and grief perfectly. It is a touching, heartfelt story of two women's challenge with overcoming grief that possesses honestly laugh out loud moments. There is a truth to this show.

I have a basic philosophy about healing and suffering. The examples change but it’s basically, “Your apocalypse doens’t make my paper cut hurt less.” People who’ve endured hardship in the past often push their resilience onto those enduring present pain. We can’t foist our paneceas on other people’s wounds.

However…

We can pass along our experiences and encourage the best.

PRE-WAR presents two survivors. O’Grady sheds just enough light on thier lives to inspire them to share more with each other, showing how history and simple gestures can heal great wounds.